Although you might not mention it, our people believe too much in large number of children, with or without a father figure. You will meet a black lady who wants a child out of wedlock.
Here in the UK, many young black kids are killed by gangs. Most have no father-figure at home, making the mum work round the clock to make ends meet. Never there for his children, and she wants more kids. How do you marry that?
You would think such mum will want to limit their kids. Nay, they are still dating roam about men donating their sperms where and when they feel like.
Our mentality needs to change. In vain we build the city if we have not first build the men.